Prepare Your Child For First Day At School
Starting school is a big step for children. The fear and anxiety of being away from home is a normal growth process. Not all children handle separation in same manner. Some cling and cry, while others are happy. Be whatever your child’s reaction to the first day of school, you can make this transition easy for your child and your self with these tips:
Discuss. So before the school opens, talk about it to your child. Show your enthusiasm and excitement at the prospect of going to school. Get your child to convey his/her feelings on this. Do not force the discussion on your child if not interested. Explain that school is something to look forward to, rather than something to fear.
Before your child starts schooling, to know how he/she copes with separation, do a mock run. Leave the child at grandma or relative’s house for few hours. Trying the time away from you will lessen the separation pangs for your child on the first day.
Enroll your child in playschool or set play dates with kids who are starting school with your child. If your child sees familiar looking faces, he / she will feel comfortable on the first day of school.
On the first day, ask your child if he/she would like to carry some token like favorite toy from home. Presence of familiar object will give your child a sense of security in new surroundings.
Spend time with your child in the classroom on the first day. Introduce your kid to the teacher and other classmates. If there is an art and craft nook, involve your child in engaging activity.
If your child is still nervous, do not scold. Avoid bribing, as it could become a daily habit. Explain the concept of learning new things, soothe his / her fears and tell that you will be back to pick him / her at the end of school day.
Say a cheerful goodbye. Stand near the door and hug the child or wave out secretly from the window. And remind your child that you will return to pick him / her on time at the end of school day.
